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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I'm not doing too well. He talked to me a little bit last night. Expressed his extreme anger and hurt that I deceived him. I feel horrible. He said it will take him a couple of years to get over this. I told him I will make an appointment for us to go to a counselor together but he refused, saying that the problem is my avoidance and we don't need a counselor to tell us that.[/quote]

Who the hell says "it will take me a couple of years to get over this?"  No sane person knows this.  Maybe it will take him 2 days when he realizes there are MUCH bigger things to worry about in life than money.  Do you have kids?[/quote]

Who says that?  Someone whose trust has been betrayed, that's who.  It's NOT a money problem!  How can you have a meaningful, intimate relationship with someone who you can't trust?  OP has a history of lying and dishonesty. Having spent years being married to someone like her, I can tell you it kills a relationship.  The only way she can 'fix' it is to be honest and forthright until she creates a history of integrity.  It will take years to do.  And, she's not doing a good job of it since she still hasn't fessed up to the additional $15K in debt.[/quote]

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