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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So besides a few people saying they know/heard of a bridezilla complaining they didn't attend their wedding, almost exclusively all the hate on this thread is coming from parents who hate childfree weddings. Nonstop insults, insinuating they are mentally ill or bad people, yikes. It really makes the parents pushing for their children to be included look entitled, petty and rude. [/quote]

Odd. I read this thread exactly the opposite. Funny how people can have such opposite experiences in reading. I am fine with child free weddings, by the way, but have to say that in this thread the worst behavior and posts are coming from child free brides. [/quote]
I'm not talking about bad behaviour, there is plenty of that on both sides. But the pro-choice/pro-dowhatyouwant people are not calling millions of people "ugly" and whatever else you or pp used as personal insults. Almost all of them say just to decline if you can't attend. It's the anti-choice/onlydoyourweddinghowIsay people are trying to control and dictate how other people live their life. It's weird. Just let people celebrate how they want. [/quote]

I have not and would not use a single personal insult, I am fine with child free weddings, but this is a bizarrely one-sided reading of this thread. I don’t get the deliberate blindness. [/quote]

Assume you are right - the degree and kind of insults are one-sided. The insults are aimed at these people and people who defend them:
 
OP: "A good friend had an adults only wedding and now her husband doesn’t speak to his sister because[b] she was angry she could not bring her 12 year old (his sister lived an hour away from the venue) and has never recovered from the slight.[/b] "

No child free wedding advocate is breaking up a family because someone invited children to a wedding. The other side will break up a family over this. If according to your eye test team child free wedding is the more insulting bunch, this hardly moves the terrible behavior needle in context.

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