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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Some people are just more reasonable than others I suppose. Many DCUM college obsessed posters treat selecting a college for their kid like finding them a marriage partner or a soulmate. It just isn’t that way. There is no perfect fit but there are plenty of good ones. You need to go into the college selection process rationally, not emotionally. For most families it’s the most expensive thing they’re going to be paying for outside of their house. I had two kids go to UVA in state. One turned down a perennial top 20 private and the other turned down a top OOS flagship. Both would have been full pay, and had it made any sense to any of us involved we would have paid it. We’re not poor. It’s just that, in the final analysis, it made no practical sense to go to either of those schools for twice the price of UVA. Neither one of them had the best time of their lives in college. They had a very good time, though, and made good friends. The time of their lives came after college, when they traveled a lot then got good jobs and met and married great spouses. There aren’t that many people for whom spending twice as much for college than they need to is doable at the wink of an eye. For those people - whatever. Have at it. But for the merely average rich among us, succumbing to the college arms race at such a ridiculous expense is insane. [/quote] So it was a financial decision [u]for you[/u]. Just say that. Not everyone has the same priorities. It’s ok. [/quote]
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