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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There is so much wrong with all of this. Get the 3 yr old to clean up her mess. She made it, not the DH. And again you want to control your husband on "his" time after he spent all morning with the daughter. He wants to relax on his time, after a week long trip, like you did on "your" time. He doesn't want to go to the park to chase a kid around. Why can't he also spend his time doing things that make him feel good?[/quote]

My dd did not make the mess. Dh said he told her to not take her own shoes off bc they were full of sand. She knows how to take off her shoes and put them away. He took them off, dumped the sand on the floor and left it. 
I don’t mind that db said no to the park. I was sharing it so people see that I attempt to create family outings and do things together.

I’d love to see the responses if a dh posted and said his wife dumped sand on the floor and hadn’t cleaned up the mess she made almost a day later.  No onr would say/ dh, either you clean it up or accept this as one of her idiosyncrasies.

Hell no. Everyone wouid say she sounds lazy and rude.[/quote]

You aren’t convincing anyone here with this, OP.  She is your daughter.  Teach her to clean up the messes that come from her shoes.  That’s part of being a parent and it’s not just your husband’s job.  That doesn’t mean your husband is always right in every situation, but in this one?  You are making a power struggle out of nothing.

Like PP, I also thought it was funny you tried to include your husband on an outing that was during his free time after enjoying your solo morning![/quote]

Agree completely. With all this tit for tat you’re acting like your in a divorced situation anyways; might as well just do it [/quote]

NP. With my husband, give him an inch and he’ll take a mile.[/quote]

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