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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"For us it seems like it helps if we go out and do stuff (see bands, etc) with friends. Women will come up and talk to me or flirt with me and I think it makes something click in her. Its like “Oh yeah, I forgot he’s attractive and other women want to have sex with him.” Sex may not be that night hut it will be the rest of the weekend at least. Its like she gets turned on by other women finding me attractive or hitting on me."

This is what Esther Perel talks about. The distance that allows you to see your partner through the eyes of others is a key part of what keeps you desiring them. [/quote]

I definitely feel more amorous towards my husband when he takes the initiative to plan fun outings for us to connect as a couple, and it has nothing to do with whether other women flirt with him. When we were dating (and having tons of sex) he was always getting tickets, making reservations, booking the trip, etc.; now he does none of that. If he were to treat me more like a girlfriend and less like a business partner, it would reignite our tepid sex life.[/quote]

That sentiment pribably goes both ways. Treat eachother like bf/gf and you’d both be happier and more willing to invest in the relationship.[/quote]
Yup. Pretty sure my DH wouldn’t have gained 30lbs when we were dating so there’s that. [/quote]

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