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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]" Refusing to work together to maintain the household is another form of abandonment. Putting your career ahead of the family's needs is another form of abandonment ( looking at you Barack -- Michelle put up with this for years). Lacking empathy for your spouse's feelings and hurt is another form of abandonment. Lacking communication skills and failing to acquire them is another form of abandonment"

Nope. Each of these things were in existence when you met and married. Most men default to thinking that maintaining a household is primarily the wife's job unless you two had an explicit conversation before the wedding. And most people believe that maximizing earning is the #1 priority of the husband in a marriage, even if it means that other things like family time suffer. And I've never heard of anyone having empathy and great communication skills when they married but then losing them 15 years later. All of these are basic assumptions or things in existence that the spouse can assess and either choose to marry you or not. None of these are surprises. None of these things spring to life on your 10th anniversary. They are in stark contrast to your spouse pronouncing your sexual life dead years into the marriage. Telling you that you cannot have sex with them or anyone else for the rest of your life is an entirely different thing than what you've listed, PP. [/quote]

Right. Because sexless marriages are a modern concept. Lol[/quote]

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