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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The reason people aren’t having kids is because having kids sucks. Even if the husband pitches in 50/50. Even if you make decent money. Kids have become far too expensive to be worth it. College tuition alone is at least $100k per kid. Childcare is over $30k a year for 5 years. There’s zero help. And kids just suck overall - the whining, complaining, the messes, sleep deprivation. My H pitches in 50/50 and we make decent money, and kids are still just a constant source of stress. Politicians throw a $2k tax credit and then shrug their shoulders with “it’s not money! We tried giving money!” when it’s that people need like $200k just to survive in the US. [/quote] I mean this sincerely - I feel sorry that that is your experience. It’s not been mine. My kids are my favorite part of my life. I will be sad when they graduate and are out of the house. [/quote] I agree. Working sucks. Home repairs and chores suck. Mid-life socializing isn't as central and fulfilling as it was in the teens and 20s. But the kids...the kids are the bright spot. [/quote]
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