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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It feels like I either have to spend my life cleaning up after another adult, like a maid
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I have to bite my tongue and accept that my husband won’t do the things he says he will do, and we live like hyenas?

The vacuum is still there, next to the pile of sand. He is casually watching Sunday morning shows. [/quote]

Have you tried saying clearly that you would like him to clean up the sand? And once you ask clearly instead of saying “what is that about “ if he doesn’t do it in 12 hours you can say it’s really bothering you that he left the sand. Honestly you need to decide which way you are going to go with this. [/quote]

Wow, thanks for swooping in on page 38 with such a simple solution. Why hasn't the OP thought of this before? Truly a mystery.[/quote]

I can’t tell if this is the OP being annoyed or some new just mocking the whole thread but I found the update, as OP described it, to be enlightening in that he’s not clearly explaining herself. The original example, where they had clearly defined agreement is different to me. I’m a DW but I’m pretty messy and we have a big entry way so some sand there would really not be a big deal and my husband would be really annoyed if I was like “what is up with this sand”. And I’d be super annoyed if he did the same to me. [/quote]

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