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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Depending on the school, you won’t have much of a choice. Many of them redshirt kids back to may for K entry. [/quote]

So how is this decided? My June boy was not redshirted by the school, but my friend's son was. They are 1 year apart and in the same class. Watching the class engage, I feel like my son is too young for K. He's that one kid who doesn't sit still, doesn't listen the first time, is constantly disturbing other children, making poor choices, etc. Hopefully behaviors really do level out as they age.[/quote]

He’s a year younger.  These are not his true peers.  Maybe his last preschool did not prepare him, especially if it was play based.  [/quote]

His entire class isn't one year older. I just know of this one child in particular because I know his mother outside of school. His last wasn't play- based, but it doesn't seem like he was prepared at all which is why I'm so curious how it's decided whether to redshirt or not. For the record, I know my friend had zero plans to redshirt until the school pretty much said you can redshirt or be rejected, choice is yours.[/quote]

I'd rather be rejected as it's not the right school fit to hold back a child based on its easier for the school vs. putting the time into the child to help them be successful.  [/quote]

Spending an extra year raising them is literally putting in the time.[/quote]

That's not really how it works.  And, if you put the time in early on you probably would not have needed to hold them back.  At 18, senior year, anyone who has checked out, isn't going to put effort in when kids are 18/senior year.  Be real.[/quote]

Be real? What?  My 18 year old senior crushed it.  In academics, sports, socially, everything.  Happy kid has had a great freshman year at Princeton so far as well.  [/quote]

And, be real.  If you sent him on time, he probably would have crushed it too.  But, you choose to infantile him by holding him back.  He would have been crushing it as a sophomore where he should be.[/quote]

You are a fool. You know nothing of my kid, let alone where he stood 13 years ago, family genetics with respect to maturing, etc, etc, etc ad infinitum.  You just blather generalities.  You have no idea where he should be and you have no idea, really about anything.  Typical seldom right but never in doubter.  [/quote]

Right.. anything to justify the situation.  Maturing... you didn't even give your kid the chance.  I hope you had him in therapy if he was that immature.  He needed support not held back.[/quote]

Again, a fool.  You don’t know anything about anything and yet you spout off.

Furthermore, maturity issues and therapy issue are not in the same ballpark.

You do you though and I will make sure my kid is nice to yours.  I am sure your dogmatic foolishness has landed them well!  [/quote]

It's sad you cannot have a conversation without name calling.  [b]You aren't someone I'd want mine to be around given how you treat people.  I feel bad for your kid they had to spend an extra year at home with you.[/B][/quote]

DP. The cognitive dissonance between the bolded two sentences is an absurdist work of art. DCUM entertainment gold. [/quote]

:lol: [/quote]

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