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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You are more at risk when you are young. The older you are, the more assets you have accumulated and also the more likely you are to get alimony. [/quote]

Did you read? Even when you get alimony, it’s not enough to live on. Unless you’re married to a gazillionaire, you better continue working to protect yourself. [/quote]

I am not sure “working to protect yourself” isn’t a wholly depressing way to go about life though.  I don’t know that, even if something were to happen to my husband, I would trade the days I’ve had with my daughter away to be in an office so I’d be more financially stable in a hypothetical future. I say this from a place of relative privilege because I have family assets and a degree that would support me and my daughter comfortably if I did need to, but I can’t imagine going to work every day thinking “I’m sacrificing time with my child so if my husband leaves me I’m in a marginally better financial position”[/quote]

You answered your own question. You have family money. A degree doesn't mean much anymore unless you have the work experience to go with it. [/quote]

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