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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]I am of course raising my kids with basic knowledge of how relationships work, and the importance of understanding the core needs of your partner, and the probable consequences if you stop meeting their core needs. My kids are reasonably smart, not geniuses, but they would pretty much agree with everything I've posted on DCUM.[/quote]

There is NO WAY your kids would ever agree that it's ok for you to cheat on their mom.  No way.  This is just another one of the lies you tell yourself.[/quote]

My kids understand the basic concept that willfully ignoring your partner's core/legitimate relationships needs does do not (magically) make those needs go away, but instead these are filled through some other means. Au contaire: it is YOU who are telling yourself lies. If I pretend you do not exist, does that make it so?[/quote]

O think your kids would be asking why didn’t you divorce her instead of cheating?  They also see it as cheating on them as you took time/mental energy away from their family life..[/quote]

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