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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am already a SAHM but this has definitely quashed any thoughts I may have had of returning to work any time soon. My kids are early elementary and DH and I have been very thankful I’m not juggling working at home like he is.[/quote] My husband and I both work. When we have “recess” daddy goes out and plays basketball with them and we alternate making lunch etc. When they need help they ask us both - is anyone on call or in a meeting? In this house we prioritize equality. And [b]I’m raising sons who won’t expect their mom to to make Daddy’s martini.[/b] YMMV.[/quote] How would you feel if the husband was the SAHP? I work full-time, as does my husband, so we have chosen to prioritize equality in our household as well. There's nothing either of us can do that the other can't, although we tend to try to play towards our likes/dislikes and strengths/weaknesses when it comes to dividing things up. We personally did not make the decision to have a SAHP for many reasons, but it's ok if other people decide that it's best for them. I just wonder if people who are so against the notion of SAHMs would feel differently if instead a family had a SAHD. [/quote]
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