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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Listen, I've stopped responding to you because you're a troll.  One thing I want to say here to you and any man who thinks like you:  instead of me educating wives-turned-low-libido that sexless lilfestyle leads to cheating, why doesn't this generation of fathers start educating their daughters that [b]sex is the most important thing to men in a relationship [/b][/quote] ... because that is not true. What is the most important part of an airplane? There isn't ONE, but there are lots of parts which, if removed, cause the plane to crash and burn. Sex is like that: take it away --&gt; crash/burn.

[quote=Anonymous]and [b]men will cheat if there's no sex.[/b]  [/quote] This is true, and I thought it was quite clear that you cannot just stop having sex and expect a normal libido person to stick around without cheating. Duh!

[quote=Anonymous]I don't understand men's viewpoint as you have previously indicated and so you fathers will do better job in educating your daughters/nieces.  You'll be doing your brethren/sons/nephews a favor by educating your daughters on what are men really like. [/quote]  You seem to be the only one unaware that men need sex

[quote=Anonymous]Also make sure to tell your daughters that it's not only about frequency of sex but it's also about new acts/excitement,[/quote]Yes, frequency is important but I certainly don't expect new/exciting sex from my wife, not sure where you ever got that idea?

[quote=Anonymous]and that women should [b]never turn a man down[/b] for sex (....you know, leads to cheating),[/quote]Nobody (not I) have ever said such a thing.

[quote=Anonymous]and that marriage gets boring and so will likely lead to divorce when kids leave for school.  [/quote]This thread is not about boring marriages. It's about sexless marriages which (of course) leads to cheating. Start a new thread if you want to talk about boring marriages.

[quote=Anonymous]Instead of posting your viewpoints on here, it's better you start with girls in your household.  You'll be doing society a favor.  [/quote]I am of course raising my kids with basic knowledge of how relationships work, and the importance of understanding the core needs of your partner, and the probable consequences if you stop meeting their core needs. My kids are reasonably smart, not geniuses, but they would pretty much agree with everything I've posted on DCUM.[/quote]

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