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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You walk your children to their daycare every day?[/quote]

Actually yes. But I'm saying people need to evaluate the real risks they face. Those PPs are thankfully in therapy but the anxiety they are trying to spread is based on unrealistic evaluations. [/quote]

14:01 PP here.  I answered OPs question, I don't spread risk.  And to say I am spreading risk, you can go kiss off for all I care what random peoooke think of me.   The only people that know of the abuse is my DH and my family.  I tell no one, for many reasons (shame and embarrassment of what my family went through is a start). Many people here are quick to judge SAHM, they're lazy, they are selfish, they just want to wear yoga pants, they have no ambition, etc.  did you ever for once stop to consider their real life experience may be a reason?  That I don't want to introduce into my home a person who will live with us, or spend an enormous period of time, without me being there, because my relative did that and raped my siblings.  More than once.  For years. Does that make you feel better?

I put my kids in daycare, I was very happy with it. But there are several people there, workers and parents.  My situation requires someone after 6pm, and their odd hours only a nanny or any pair could do.  No.  Not for me.  I also don't want to spend only a few hours a week with my kids.  So I quit my job and have no regrets.  I hope you never find yourself in my shoes.  [/quote]

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