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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Funny how it is the women saying "just suck it up and do it," whereas the men still want us to really want it.  Any men say "just fake it"?  The key here seems to be that men don't really know the difference.  Or can't bear to admit it to themselves.[/quote]

No, the key seems to be effort or lack thereof. If you're laying there like a passive-aggressive cum rag, we know you aren't enjoying it and you don't give a shit who knows it. Sex isn't even serving as a display of affection. If you're faking it, at the very least, you are still care enough to do that. (And, for a number of LD spouses, artificial enthusiasm often turns into the real thing as responsive desire kicks in.) [/quote]

For me, I play the session like a movie in my head. I will admit that in the moment, I'm not thinking about DH touching me and how hot it is. I'm thinking about some hot piece of ass in my office or on the metro that I saw earlier in the day/week/whatever. Or that I'm one of Don Draper's women and his hands are all over me and vice versa. I step into my alter ego and  imagine I'm DH's ultimate fantasy and he finds me, in the moment, absolutely irresistible. With thoughts like that, 20 minutes goes by fast and I end up doing things that surprise both of us. [/quote]

As a husband, I would have absolutely no problem if this was an approach my wife was taking. Besides, I'd be lying if I said that visions of her sister never crept into my head during the act. [/quote]

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