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Reply to "If I had know this was the case, I probably wouldn't have married you."
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[quote=Anonymous]I agree that attraction, lust, and butterflies pretty reliably fade with familiarity. One problem, however, is the notion that feelings of lust are a necessary precursor to enjoyable sex. If you otherwise love your spouse, I think you can enjoy sex more if you make an effort -- read some smutty novels earlier in the day; think of ways to be creative in the bedroom; try to concentrate more on your sexuality generally. Spontaneous lust might not make you jump your spouse's bones, but I think a lot of times if you go into the act with the general notion that sex is fun - then sex will more likely be fun. (And, if you can think of ways that your spouse can help you with this attitude, tell him or her.) [/quote]
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