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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You get upset when anyone brings up kids and are clearly compartmentalizing there.  That doesn’t work in real life because you are cheating on your DW and kids, and putting their family stability at risk.  When this blows up - and it almost always does, as much as you believe you have perfected how to cheat - it will destroy your kids, too.[/quote]Haha, you think I'm upset?  There isn't a single thing said in this thread that upsets me in the least.  It's just a dumb forum where I've tried, oh I've tried so hard, to answer the original question posed by the OP.  I couldn't care less what any of you strangers think of me or what I do.  Your unsolicited advice doesn't mean a thing to me.[/quote]

I understand where the man is coming from in this. It's pretty simple. His DW cut off sex, so he's found that elsewhere.

The other posters seem to have no understanding of this. They have some massive chip on their shoulder.[/quote]

They just pretend to not understand but really, they get it.  You would have to be really dense to need this explained to you.  There are a lot of men reading and just shaking their head who wouldn't bother to post.  They are like, dude, why are you bothering to argue with these harpies?  The ones with a real chip on their shoulder are married women who don't like me holding up a mirror to see the reality of their own situation.  Only a real A$$hole of a man would behave like me.  Not your average man.  Certainly her husband would never give a thought to cheating, just because she cut him off from sex.  It just can't happen in their perfect marriage.  And if it happened to her, she would do the right thing and wait until her divorce was final before looking for any new D.  Yeah....rigghht.  Trust me, they all get what I'm saying.  I'm not a lonely voice in this explaining sexual dynamics in marriage for the first time.  They've heard it all before and in at least 100 other posts on this board.[/quote]

Man here and I agree.[/quote]

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