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Big character flaw and who knows what psychological problems.

He should talk to his wife like an adult. Along these lines:[b] "Listen us not having sex isn't healthy or normal. We need to go to counseling, or fix the problem."[/b]

I'm betting his wife has another take, so together they may find out what the problem is. It may not be sex. It may be something else and lack of sex is merely the symptom. For many women it's often resentment. Maybe he's cheated before, and maybe she's known all along what he's about. Who knows.

Last he needs to be upfront, he'll seek female companionship if she has no inclination to work on the problem. The result being a divorce. Which would be better than pp lying, cheating and living a sick double life.

[/quote] Ho Lee Fuk, did you just join the discussion on this page, or have you been reading along for the last 30 pages or so as I've said at least a dozen times now how I've done just that?  For years.[/quote]

[quote=Anonymous]Then tell her your going to a lawyer and have papers drawn up since she doesn't want to be a "couple".

Follow through and see what she does. [/quote]Or how about I don't, and just continue to manage things my own way?  I didn't ask anyone for advice on how to handle my marriage.  None of your advice is worth anything to me.[/quote]

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