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[quote=Anonymous]I do almost all the things on that list plus the cars, home maintenance and more or I am responsible for outsourcing it. I get flooded with fear occasionally of how the family would function without me if I had some deadly illness or car accident. I don't feel one bit bitter because I signed up to take this on as a sahm but seeing the LONG list compiled like that made me really sad about how much I belittle my efforts. The kids have really great and smooth lives and I don't give myself any credit but give everyone else credit and in that way, I'm part of the problem of not giving credit where it is due. They have awesome hobbies, camps and social groups but I often strictly focus on the areas that are not the most optimal and how I'm single handedly failing them there. I think the guilt is heavy and I give people, who belittle that labor, power by going along with their views that we must always do more/better.[/quote]
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