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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If I see this correctly: 1. You married up and are reaping the financial benefits 2. Your ex is financially reliable, but he married a professionally successful woman and your DD is not included in their "nuclear family" so sees no benefit there 3. You think your DD is entitled and bratty and should be concerned about her relationship with siblings to keep your life smooth. I think she will take your 30K, spend it on whatever college she decides, then ditch you and her bio dad. As soon as she's fully independent, your relationship with her will be done. I don't think you'll mind all that much because you don't really care about her anyway. [/quote] +1,000 When you guys take vacations, does your daughter fly coach while everyone else flies first class? Does she stay at the Holiday Inn while everyone else is at the Ritz? She is a second class citizen in the only family she has, and you, as her mother, are okay with that because leaving her there allows you to move up to first class. If she rocks the boat, it’s your status that changes, not hers. Good for her for telling her step-sisters they only got in to college for XYZ reason. She’s technically right, and she’s going to resent and hate them anyway, so it doesn’t change anything for her, just you. Trade in your daughters happiness for the good life if you want, but at least own up to it.[/quote]
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