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It wouldn't be worth me losing my kids. Often kids find out down the road, or the other spouse will tell them. They would likely resent you.

What about couple's counseling???[/quote]Wow, another one.  How about, any Fing counseling?  How about we discuss this at all?  I tried to get her to counseling be it individual, couples, you name it.  I did counseling myself and it was somewhat helpful but made no difference to her.  I asked her to go to her own doctor, or any doctor she chose.  Leave kids out of the discussion.  I never mentioned kids and they aren't relevant to this.[/quote]

Kids are part of your family, and when you cheat on your wife you cheat on them. You destroy their trust and put their family dynamics at risk. Of course they are relevant. Going by what you posted it sounds like she checked out of the marriage. Maybe she's only staying for the kids and finances. Have you mentioned divorce to her? And what is her response? If you BOTH can't meet half way I would say it's time to part. [/quote]

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