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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^ Self reflection can help with those delusions actually. I held up a mirror for these people in those "10 pages". They will close their eyes and fight looking at it, but they got a glimpse, and they notice that the image is not as high and mighty as they built it in their heads.

Again, they are welcome.[/quote]

Projection [/quote]

Anything to avoid admitting she was humiliated and betrayed. By the husband she chose and stuck with, waiting for the other shoes to drop.[/quote]

Could you please bump up the PP you are referring to? This conversation is really confusing otherwise.[/quote]

The entire conversation is a mess.

I am a happily married woman and I agree with the other woman daring to point out that betrayed wives who scream insults at their husband’s girlfriends-affair partners-side pieces etc are totally and completely delusional, where they don’t direct that same fire to the husband. Cue the insults and a million lying replies about how of course they blame the men equally. It’s all lies.[/quote]

But they do.  Both parties in an affair are responsible. I haven’t met a single betrayed person who didn’t hold their spouse’s feet to the fire.  None.  Not the ones that left or the ones that decided to reconcile after waiting much time and getting protections in place.

I think what is objectionable are the few on here taunting and demanding respect for being part of an affair.  That’s sick.  Nobody should be proud if themselves that they are having sex with someone else’s spouse and lacking empathy.  It’s 2023, people don’t like either party that does this and as others have points out, the majority of time around here both people are married.[/quote]

Where are the APs responding and taunting? Show us those posts.
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That poster is making a logical assumption that someone this obsessed with BW bashing would be an AP herself. But we have no way of knowing for sure. It may just be someone without other social or intellectual outlets.[/quote]

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