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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^ Self reflection can help with those delusions actually. I held up a mirror for these people in those "10 pages". They will close their eyes and fight looking at it, but they got a glimpse, and they notice that the image is not as high and mighty as they built it in their heads.

Again, they are welcome.[/quote]

Projection [/quote]

Anything to avoid admitting she was humiliated and betrayed. By the husband she chose and stuck with, waiting for the other shoes to drop.[/quote]

Could you please bump up the PP you are referring to? This conversation is really confusing otherwise.[/quote]

The entire conversation is a mess.

I am a happily married woman and I agree with the other woman daring to point out that betrayed wives who scream insults at their husband’s girlfriends-affair partners-side pieces etc are totally and completely delusional, where they don’t direct that same fire to the husband. Cue the insults and a million lying replies about how of course they blame the men equally. It’s all lies.[/quote]

But why can't you have a conversation that includes nuance and thoughtfulness? If you've been cheated on you're not allowed to have an opinion on the rando woman who slept with your husband? Doing so is some kind of failure of feminism, or self-esteem, or intelligence? That is just silly.

Frankly it's super weird to be this passionate about not allowing people to have opinions of the woman who slept with their husband. And therefore I suspect you are the same poster just pretending to be someone else to give yourself a +1.[/quote]

Those opinions say as much about you as they say about those APs.

It's super weird to think that there can be only one person questioning your characterization of your DH's AP.

And by the way, the woman is rando to you. Your DH would say otherwise. He knows her...intimately. 
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