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[quote=Anonymous]What about in families where there is a mix? For example in birth order: a bio child, adopted child, another bio child. Open adoption so the child has known the bio mom, dad AND grandparents who regularly visit the family home. Now the bio mom and dad are in new relationships and one of them are pregnant/expecting a child. They are excited to introduce the new baby to the adopted child as a "sister/brother." But no mention of how to integrate that baby with the bio children. Or how to address the grandparent issue. The adoptive parents have expressed they want to have an element of control over what is said to all the kids and there is a subtle hint that if it doesn't go according to their wishes, the "open" adoption may begin to have the door swing shut. What is the healthiest way for this to be explained to the adopted child and the bio children in the family? [/quote]
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