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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do you really need an answer? Of course it isn't wrong. Be warned, though, if you are a woman your men friends think that simple acts of kindness and humanity mean that you LIKE them. I think this is because men don't do anything kind or above and beyond unless they want to have sex with you.[/quote]

What a horribly misandrist thing to say. [b]Were you born wrong or just raised badly?[/b][/quote]

I mean, probably both?

But back on topic, other than old college friends, I've found that once I've gotten emotionally close to a man they have started to read into it and get emotionally invested in a way that I'm not interested. I want to be a friend, not anything more than that. They start thinking there is more there.

Take what you will from that. I have limited experiences - I don't know all men everywhere. [/quote]

Reading the truth on this forum is awesome, thank you.   I have never heard of two heterosexual people of the opposite gender being friends without one of them wanting something more out of the relationship.  They might downplay or deny it, but it always comes out in the end.[/quote]

Well, I'm a woman with plenty of male friends of multiple decades and your view of our friendships just isn't the case. So now you've heard of an example. You're welcome. [/quote]

Damn, those guys take patience to a different level.   Have they ever told you they were interested or are they just waiting for you to realize they are the one you can’t live without due to the depth of your relationship?[/quote]

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