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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It can be fine but you do need to be careful as a friend of the opposite sex can slowly turn into more if there is an attraction.  As a female jogger whose husband does not run I wanted to find a group to run with.  I did and over the course of a few years I developed a close friendship with one of the guys and I did not even realize it had happened.  Our group would have a year end running party at a bar and I found myself telling my husband no spouses were going.  So he didnt go and looking back on it now I should have not gone either.   After a few drinks he and I were eye to eye in what I would call an intimate discussion.   He made me laugh and at the end of the night we ended up kissing.  Turned out he had the same feelings and I guess I should have known that.   [b]We had a fling[/b] and neither spouse found out about it initially.   [b]After a few years[/b] we each decided we better call it off.  And now I feel awful but had I listened to some of the PP cooments above on be careful and aware, I think my head would have told me to cut it off before it began.   So you just need to be careful and aware if it gets flirty!   I did not do that.   My husband found out eventually and we worked through it but I feel bad for not being truthful with him about it.  And my friend?  He never told his wife.  [/quote]

Is it really a "fling" if it lasted "a few years"?  Seems more like an affair IMHO.  Glad your DH became ok with it.[/quote]

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