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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do your children know he's planning on doing this? I do think it's unfortunate, and if it's something that is in the near future, doesn't speak highly of his commitment to parenting. One thing to move a few hours away, or move oversees when they are settled/graduated from college. If it's not anytime soon, I wouldn't worry about it - plans change, he might realize he wants to be around for his college aged kids more, etc. And if he does do it, I agree with a PP, don't tell your kids how you feel. They might not really care, or they might be disappointed, but not surprised. And don't make it about the money. On the plus side - maybe this means his new family will be caretakers when he's older and he won't be a burden on your kids? [/quote] Thanks for this. He has told the kids, and while they don’t seem excited, it’s not imminent. He needs to be able to retire to make this possible and he is not there yet.[/quote]
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