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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]They are within the realm of normal, especially if traditional and/or religious, so no need to get huffy about their reaction, but yes to having close family members that want to be there come to the courthouse and yes to setting a date ASAP and locking it in. Maybe even get a dress now so when he proposes you can go to the courthouse right then for the license and get married as soon as eveyone can convene...I think this could be romantic[/quote]

My aunt got pregnant at 16, the other eloped. My uncle, who is a pastor by the way, has a son who had a baby out of wedlock when was 23? His other son is gay and solicits himself online, while his daughter although is married, her husband cheated on her and had a baby outside of the marriage but they think he walks on water. My dad wants to marry a woman half his age after knowing her for 3 months [b]and only 1.5 after my mom’s passing [/b] but this is a “rushed job”. My other uncle went to jail but two adults sharing a bed is off limits (Thanksgiving), or having a baby out of wedlock at 35 & 36 is too much?

I think it’s the hypocrisy and the initializing that I’m having a hard time with. 
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So you also got together with this guy right when your mother died?

[quote][b]So when is the wedding?”. I was confused because I’m in no shape to plan a wedding for 100+ people right now. [/b][/quote]
 
And you’re talking about the custom diamond engagement ring you're waiting for right now?

OP sad to say I think your priorities are out of whack. You went off of Pinterest-wedding-track when you got pregnant. Put your Mom thinking cap on and get your ducks in a row and file with this person at the earliest available date. The ring and the parties are trappings and a really stupid reason to delay what actually matters, legal status.[/quote]

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