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Reply to "Feeling like I'm the spouse who is always "on" and keeping things in order"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's more effective to have purviews -- you shouldn't require two people to notice everything. For example, on person should be on kids clothes. One should be on bill paying. Both of you manage your own cars and laundry. Some things will be joint tag-teaming -- for us it's grocery shopping and cooking. [/quote] Sorry but seeing damage in your own house or something dangerous is simple adulting and normal judgement. If your spouse is such a bozo they can’t even identify something that needs doing, then absolutely cut bait. ID it, call the right repair person or doctor or take care of it. Dont ignore it. Same at work. Nothing is worse for retention of A Level players than have to manage and coddle a deadweight who brings dysfunction, disruption and delay. Same as what that thomas the train boss says. Confusion and delay. [/quote]
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