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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't understand how or why the wife - an fit, attractive anesthesioligst - put up with him for so long.  And I suspect she assisted in his death.[/quote]

I was married to a man not quite as bad as this guy, but who did negligent things with our DD.

I put up with it for years because the alternative was for him to have 50/50 custody, and I would have zero oversight over what he did. At least with him in the same house, I could keep an eye on him. And despite the negligent things he did, according to my attorneys, it wasn’t enough to get full custody in my state (to give an example, I have a male friend whose ex wife would let their young daughter sleep in the same bed with whatever her drug addict boyfriend of the week was, and when it was brought to court the judge literally said “at least she has a bed to sleep in”).

We’ve since split now that DD is older, but I still worry constantly. Mostly I just pray that xH gets bored and decides to move and give up custody.

Not saying this is what happened here - many women stay with horrible men because they’re just afraid to be alone - but I can understand that leaving can also be out of the frying pan and into the fire. [/quote]

Fair.  But did you leave your exdh to be your DD's primary caregiver when you worked?  In this situation, wouldn't your DD or Schultz's kids be better off in day care than with a negligent spouse (well, obviously, yes, in the case of Schultz's kids)?  [/quote]

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