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[quote=Anonymous]16:11, I’m amazed by the similarities. Cast out an an ice floe is the feeling for sure. My DH was an absolute moron about retirement and college savings and believed that college should be done via cash flow and retirement was going to happen via the promotion he got after he ditched me. I hope he is using that for his retirement. I did get the 529 and more locked down. I have retirement for me that is slowly growing from my long-ago career and I take my alimony and sock away everything possible plus what I got from our settlement. He is making a fortune and he’ll probably squander it on god knows what. The funny thing is that the kids say they knew something was up the winter before he filed. They said he wouldn’t play board games with them anymore at the ski house and was always just watching shows or sitting around. I think he just lost the energy for family. They don’t go up there much either because I was the one that got everybody out the door. It sounds like he doesn’t have the energy to coax everyone up and make breakfast and get gear on before lunch rolls around, which is depressing to hear. I left some of my stuff too. It felt tainted.[/quote]
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