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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP - below is literally the exact script I used on my parents for a similar situation: "We didn't invite you because you said you couldn't travel. We have already made our plans for that weekend and unfortunately due to your and dad's mobility issues, you wouldn't be able to participate. We'd love to come visit when the kids have a long weekend in the fall so that we can spend time with you."[/quote] +1. This is the most adult and reasonable reply. It’s honest and straightforward without being mean. [/quote] I mostly agree but I do wonder about leading with empathy, or acknowledging their feelings and yours too. I wish you could come too, it stinks to miss and we'll miss you. But remember the last time, we all agreed that the travel is just too much with kids that need to be active. Then the rest of it. [/quote]
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