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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here - he won’t let me go to therapy with him. He is mad about something that has to go with his job “wronging him”, it has nothing at all to do with me so there really isn’t much I could have done. I’m a calm person, it is very rare for me to lose my temper even with the many teens we are raising. I do understand why someone could ask what I’m doing, though, because I do think sometimes spouses can provoke husbands, but I also think I’m pretty self-aware.
I do think he has undiagnosed depression/anxiety/ADHD. I just feel at a loss - it is really taking its toll on me and I know it affects my kids. 
He does drink and he drinks it’s a lot worse. Especially the last year he will get really mad if he drinks, and had snuck alcohol and lied about it. [b]I don’t think it’s the best decision for our family for me to leave [/b]but staying is hard. I have moments where he is so good and normal and then he will snap. 
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Why not?[/quote]

OP here…. Because he is mostly good and kind. Because I love him and my kids love him. Because no one is perfect… and because [b]staying is easier[/b], I don’t want to be alone, give up financial freedom/move, etc. [/quote]

Staying is easier for YOU.  what about for your kids?[/quote]

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