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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I did not mean it. I meant to say that I hate it when he is so stubborn. It happened when I was doing his reading and he was being very difficult. The words slipped out of my mouth and I said, "I hate you". I was sleepy and tired of his behavior. I immediately retracted and said that I meant to say.... Three days later, he wants to know why I said that. Darn it, I can't believe it. DS is 8.[/quote] This is old but, May 2023, my son was barely 5 years old. He’s a non verbal autistic child. He didn’t let me change his diaper and I struggled for an hour. I was so pissed. I cussed at him and told him I regreted him and hated him. I don’t know if he understood me but his face expression changed. I did spank him. I was yelling at him. His mom came home and gave me one of the nastiest attitude. I realized how I was behaving and just left the room. I have gotten frustrated many times but not like that. My son was happy after she came home and changed him. It’s like it never happened. I felt so horrible and to this day it saddens me and it hurts. I still yell at him but I have so much more control now. I let him know every day that I love him, not knowing if he understands me. I still have the same issues but learned the expectation.[/quote]
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