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[quote=Anonymous]OP, it might help for you to explore this notion that you are being "dishonest". Do you think your sister is not already blaming herself? Do you think she is blissfully unaware her family is blaming her behind her back? Based on what you have described, it sounds like you wouldn't be giving her any new information by being "honest", so this is not about being honest. This is about you feeling upset about what happened and looking for someone to blame. Which is a totally natural response but obviously, as you know, is not something you should ever say out loud to your sister or to anyone else and you need to shut down anyone who tries to blame the mother for the loss of her child.[/quote]
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