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Reply to "Partner and I can't agree on a surname after marriage and now I'm wondering if marrying him is even worth it."
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I find this ridiculous, my mom kept her last name, as did I. My sons have my last name as a middle name and my husband's as a surname. My spouse and I have been married over 15 years, my parents have been married over 60 years. I don't personally care if someone socially calls me Mrs. Husband's name, but I didn't want the legal hassle and I quite like my name. Literally never had issues. It's your name, it's your day to day life. [/quote] This! But I would wonder about other things that he may be assuming. Does he assume that you will be the primary parent if you have kids and backseat your career? You should use this as an opportunity to talk about your wants and make sure you are in the same page about family life.[/quote]
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