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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m team adoption. This woman is not prepared to be a mother and the father doesn’t want it. Keeping the baby from a chance at a loving, financially secure family and upbringing is selfish. Yes the baby is cute but it’s really selfish how granny jumped in. I guess her desire to be a grandparent is more important than her biological grandchild’s life and future. [/quote]
You are a stranger and have no right to dictate anything to this family. Happy, healthy families come in all kinds of constellations. MYOB. [/quote]

By posting on an anonymous message board you are seeking the advice of strangers. You seem to be very vested in this fantasy that getting pregnant, and pretending not to know or hiding it from the father will result in a happy family. It is not 1950. Women and men do not get married and raise surprise babies living happily ever after. This 100% does not happen when the mother hides it and the father finds out a week before delivery.

You were 100% out of line to give out your son’s SSN. You were also out of line to call the girl and offer a credit card and other support to raise the baby. This is not your place and you are feeding into an immature and potentially mentally ill woman’s fantasy of snagging her husband. She will be a single mother which is incredibly hard when a woman is secure, educated, and ready with time to plan.

From your posts, you yourself do not sound stable. This child 100% would be better off going to a loving family. [/quote]

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