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[quote=Anonymous]OP here Feb 16

Regardless of some crazy ish stirring post, it's actually going better.

For one, my two sons had a very cute relationship for a long time until the older one evolved into sports, which his dad highly valued, while it took a longer time for our younger one to find his footing in life. He absolutely grew up in the shadow because his older was larger than life and in everything. He studied abroad and married someone there, none of the family here in the US seems to even know what to make of him.

But he has come through, it's like close to a month ago I was comforting an adult child who regressed and basically turned back into a kid, and today they've been having so many conversations that I saw, in an online image, "thank you for being the best older brother anyone could have"

"I've been trying to get over more and the other day I held Kevin for a while and it felt very wholesome"

I'm now having to hold back, it's his ship now. I feel somewhat sad having to hold back, but it's best for the situation. He can't be on the fast track to enter into true adulthood as long as he's still turning to me. It's not a year or 3 months, it's barely been even 1 month.

No one's mentally challenged here and it's kind of weird and mean to say something like that.

Someone else taught me the term "cryptic pregnancy" ... it's definitely rare but not that rare. It's about on the occurance level of cystic fibrosis. 
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