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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] You know there would be a diagnosis and label for this, right? It didn’t just show up one day. No struggles in school? Parents never mentioned anything?[/quote] DP I think this is irrelevant. If it is mostly the case that men cannot be vetted as parents, that's your sign. Your sign is men cannot be vetted. Expect a bad outcome playing Russian roulette. Do not proceed if it's a man. Of course it's [i]mostly[/i] the case, not always, that red flags exist. The reason they are overlooked and minimized is women want children. We know this for many reasons; for instance, women will have more children with men who aren't talking care of existing children. Children are the reason signs are overlooked. And children suffer.[/quote] Raccoon/lightbulb PP. We met during a very structured time in our life, and then DH had a travel heavy career early in our marriage. It allowed him to adult in short, brief spurts without me realizing that he would one day lack the stamina for anything more than that. [/quote] If you were not aware he was a man, understandable. If you were aware he was a man, outcome completely inevitably expected. Lesson learned. Wish you the best. Ensure your daughter - any loved female in your life- will avoid marrying or procreation with a man, like avoiding Heroin. [/quote]
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