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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What does someone who's "sick of DEI" stand for affirmatively? What are their values exactly?[/quote] I didn’t write that myself but my 8th grader wants to write an essay without that focus. Or have a history lesson without that focus. He just wants a more traditional education where everything isn’t boiled down to identity or ethnicity or race. It’s tiresome to have it seep into their daily eduction. [/quote] But this is EXACTLY what the school said they do at the admissions open house. Did you not believe them? This is what you signed up for. This is what you said you wanted to buy.[/quote] Not exactly. I had no idea HOW intense and intrusive the DEI department would be. I did not anticipate how frustrated my DC would be due to the continual DEI focus during assemblies, aspects of History class in HS and much of MS, field trips, 9th grade Seminar, weird reporting practices, biased disciplinary approaches, etc.[/quote] Yes! All of this is true Would not be the first time GDS doesnt paint full picture at Open Houses. For instance, they dont tell parents that kids are limited to applying to 10 (now 12 reluctantly after a parent revolt in 2023) colleges max. That's it. They most certainly dont talk about that upfront. They dont talk about how discipline process in HS works - opaque, inconsistent, and crappy dressed up in DEI / restorative justice, student-driven hoo-ha. There are now 29 pages of comments about the poorly run administration If many of us could do it again, we would have done a cathedral school. And our family is not religious, we are URMs, and we are liberal. the goal posts have moved. [/quote] GDS limits kids to 12 college applications? Wow. [b]Mine at other Big 3s applied to 15-20 each.[/b] Some kids just need to explore more options, particularly in this tough admissions environment. What business is it of the school if kids want to spend additional time submitting applications and parents are fine with excessive applications fees?[/quote] I have kids at two different Big3 schools (not GDS) and college counseling advised STRONGLY against applying to more than a dozen schools. They pointed out that kids applying to 15-20 have no better outcomes than those applying intelligently to less. They have found that kids applying to more just get more rejections. This is data driven. They will allow kids to apply to more but parents like you are clearly outliers and viewed as off base and frankly a PITA. [/quote] Families should decide for themselves how many schools they would like to apply to. Period. [/quote] This may be data driven but there is always the exception. My kid applied to 20 schools and got into their dream school. If they had a 12 school limit the dream school might not have been on the list.[/quote] Wouldn’t your ‘dream school’ be on any list? [/quote]
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