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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In a way you might be doing that 12 year old a huge favor. 12 years old in a room filled with adults they mostly don't know is not REALLY going to be a celebration for them, anyway, imho. I mean, I can understand the parents feeling upset and wronged, etc., but in reality the kid might have more fun at home.[/quote] Okay. Tell yourself that. If the 12 year old didn't want to come she wouldn't. Not inviting her is an insult, not a favor.[/quote] It's only an insult if parents twist it to make it one.[/quote] This. OP is planning a small wedding -- a perfectly reasonable choice -- which means only a small number of people get invited. It doesn't mean she is seeking to alienate everyone in her life other than these 30, it just means she wanted a small gathering. If you choose to be hurt by every invite you don't receive, that is a hurt you are imposing on yourself.[/quote]
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