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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If sex is part of a healthy marriage, which I'm sure it is, as a society we need to be more open about exploring sexuality. Women need to be more in touch with what they want. A lot of mismatched marriages could be prevented if we paid more attention to what actually makes a happy marriage and put less emphasis on popping out kids by X age or achieving a socially recognized arrangement. We also need to get better about having conversations BEFORE marriage about what kind of set up is going to make both partners happy longterm. Too many women enter into traditional gender roles and later discovered they feel burnt out and empty. There's a lot we could do to make matches more efficient and lasting. If we really care about stable families for the purpose of raising children, we need to put the work in up front.[/quote] Many, many people are extremely sexually compatible and into sex .... until the body fails one of them, usually due to age. Sometime it can be fixed over time; sometimes it can't. A real marriage accepts this as a part of the circle of life together, and the end of PIV does not mean the end of intimacy. Intimacy is not always sexual either. We need to work on the commitment part of marriage and stop thinking nothing will ever change. Something always changes. People need to learn BEFORE marriage what "for better or worse" can really mean.[/quote]
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