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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How do people get married to someone that wouldn’t want to give the same to her child as he does for his own? As a parent your number one responsibility is to your kids and anyone who loves you would make them their first priority as well. Shouldn’t he want the best for her just like he does for his own kids? If he doesn’t then I really think that says something about his love for you OP. [/quote] Agree. If you agree to marriage you agree to FULLY open up your finances as well as your heart, no matter how old the children involved are. If you have no assets prior to marriage then your new spouse should be willing to spend the same amount on your child as they do their own. That includes college education, material things like cars, down payments for homes, other financial gifts etc. If they balk at this then it is obvious they are selfish and don't care what happens to your child nor you. If your spouse has millions in the bank then your children (including adult children) should inherit the same amount from your estate as their biological children do. It's only fair. [/quote]
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