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[quote=Anonymous]It infuriates me when people get married when their kid is a tween and don't think AT ALL about financial aid for college if they don't intend to pay. I totally get that things happen sometimes. But this just sounds like a scenario where it never occurred to OP that her getting married had MASSIVE ramifications for her daughter's financial aid eligibility AND she never had any plan for addressing those ramifications (and now seems completely unwilling to). The bare MINIMUM that you should do is ask your husband to loan your daughter the necessary $$ at no profit to himself. Even then, there's a decent chance she's worse of than she would have been if she gets into an elite school (which offer lots of grants as opposed to loans), but at least she's not completely screwed. OP: If you aren't willing to even ask your husband to loan your daughter the money, I sincerely hope she leaves for college and never looks back.[/quote]
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