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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The poster who never wanted children but had them in order to “keep her husband” because he wanted them. Her husband agreed to do most of the childcare.[/quote]

The worst![/quote]

Omg yeah I wa going to say this lady too! Can alllllways count on her to show up (too) promptly. We get it, you never wanted your kids. Really cool. [/quote]

Really? I am the worst?  I'm worse than the parents who helicopter or neglect their kids? I'm worse than the mothers who pass on their disordered eating to their kids?  I'm worse than the parents who are so anxious that their kids absorb that and become anxious themselves?  Please.  My kids are loved, nurtured, and happy.  [/quote]

Yes[/quote]

If you think I'm worse than all that, then your opinion holds no weight in my eyes.  We obviously have different value systems. [/quote]
I agree with you PP. Outside of neglect, I think an anxious mom raising anxious kids is way worse than a lot of things. It's teaching children a way of being that will
Cause them trouble for life unless they seek help.[/quote]

NP here. I disagree that simply being anxious is worse than having never wanted your kids. Not “I didn’t want them at first but I love them so much now”, but “I didn’t want kids and still feel that way and I mention it at every possible opportunity on DCUM”.[/quote]

+1 million. Super weird. That lady makes me really uncomfortable, it's like she takes weird glee in (REPEATEDLY.) telling us how much she didn't want her kids and only had them to keep her husband. [/quote]
NP here - is this the same poster who agreed to one kid to keep her DH, then was forced to adopt the second child from a family member? Every time I see that poster I feel such pity for the two kids with the mom that never wanted them and spends her days watching DCUM threads for the opportunity to post about it.[/quote]

You don't need to waste your time feeling bad for my kids. They're happy. I would never tell them I didn't want kids. [/quote]
Oh, they can tell.[/quote]

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