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[quote=Anonymous]Do we all think that infidelity --even long term affairs in which there is a clear investment of time, money, and emotions in the AP-- should end the marriage? There are many cultures in which wives tolerate a mistress precisely because she is a known "evil" vs. an unknown (and therefore, more dangerous) one. An established mistress is one that can be spied on and, to some extent, manipulated in ways that the women a traveling husband might hire for one evening can't be. I'm not advocating infidelity, but as a childhood survivor of a divorce caused by my father's second family, I am arguing we would have been much better off if Mom had controlled the situation a bit. Instead, Family A (me and my siblings) ended up growing up in inner city poverty and Family B (the half-sibs) were elevated to a cushy life in the suburbs. And yes, I am bitter. My mom preserved her dignity, but at what cost to her children's economic well-being and emotional health? [/quote]
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