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Reply to "Partner and I can't agree on a surname after marriage and now I'm wondering if marrying him is even worth it."
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This may be the most ridiculous reason to get divorced I've seen on this forum. Are you both even able to agree on pizza toppings? How did you even get married to each other? [/quote] They aren’t married yet. But if he cannot respect her autonomy and her needs / feelings / concerns enough to even consider compromising, this is not a little thing. This is a BIG thing. Maybe you don’t think your personal rights and name mean much - but could you see how it would be important to somebody else?[/quote] This is where you miss the bost. Instead of accepting that two people have different viewpoints on the naming issue, and a mutual inability to resolve that difference, you immediately go to heaping 100% of the blame for the relationship ending upon the man. Nope. OP has a choice to make. She can decide they are incompatible and move on. Demonizing him to justify her decision is simply a.lack of accountability on her part. [/quote]
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