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How about the wife plays the role of a wife in a marriage whereby sex is enjoyed by both parties.  No one is calling the wife to be a hooker.[/quote]

Yet while it may be desirable that a wife likes sex, it is not part of the definition of "wife."  "Having sex" is part of that definition, I suppose, but not liking it.  So many husbands feel betrayed by changes in the sex drives of wives, especially after kids.  Feeling that a sense of "betrayal" is legitimate (as expressed in the very first posting here) drives a lot of unhappiness and blaming the wife for her LD position, rather than blaming the husband for his HD situation, or blaming the culture in which younger women are more promiscuous and seem to promise what they cannot later deliver, or whatever.  Heck, you may feel even more righteous by the comments of those DWs who come to your side in these gender wars and say "gee, I try really really hard to like sex with my husband because it is my job, and so it is my duty get myself in the mood."  [/quote]

It's not an age or cultural thing. I just don't see why your husband should stay married to you if you don't want or like sex with him. [/quote]

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