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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thanks for commentary from someone who was there and not people who just want to criticize coaches ad nauseum.[/quote]

What's wrong with criticizing coaches who verbally abuse young children?  [/quote]

Nothing wrong. But “verbally abuse” is tossed around a lot here and the bar is low for what “gentle parents” consider abusive. [/quote]

I've seen BSC players crying on the field after getting ripped by their coaches with language I consider to be way over the line.  Is that sufficient for your definition of verbal abuse you clown?  [/quote]

The crazy thing is that these coaches allegedly ripping these children apart are still coaching. So everyone on here are keyboard warriors.  There are year and years of accusations on this forum and there has been zero action to these coaches.

So no one has cared enough about other players to pursue claims.  Or maybe there has been claims but have been found to be meritless.

So don’t listen to ppl on this board. Do your due diligence and if u see a problem, do something in real life.

When you’re dealing with children’s reputations and ultimate futures in a sport that operates in a very small world at the highest level….it is very easy to bash those for officially not coming forward when you don’t think about the long term ramifications that may have on the child in this sport. It’s a small world. Even the most anonymous reporting will eventually be found out and directed back to a specific child. Let’s be real.

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You be real. What are you even on about?  Children don’t have or develop reputations, their parents do. The only reputation a youth soccer player should have is anything related to their ability to play the game.  How big of a deal soccer is to a child or how they come out of challenging situations is heavily influenced by their parents.

You are trying to find blame for the challenges your child faced and the inconvenience of switching course when club/coach had the audacity to think your child was not as amazing as you think and/or declined to cater to the needs of your child. It wasn’t a good fit. Move on or report.

Don’t let your reputation hold your child back.

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