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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH is a very high earner. He would absolutely be successful without me. It is just who he is. He is very smart and works really hard. What he could not have without me is a family that is relaxed and happy and gets to do lots of fun things. I am 100% in charge of the house, kids, bills, vacations, money, and everything else. He certainly contributes when he can, but I am the default and everyone is clear about it. I left biglaw to stay home with the kids because having 2 high level jobs was not sustainable once we had more than one child. [/quote] He would be successful *at work* but wouldn’t be successful in any other domain of life. [/quote] lol imagine your daughter says “I’m marrying a successful man”, and then it turns out he’s successful in every domain of life except work. Like, he’s poor and will stay poor. Would you call him successful? So, of course successful means successful at work! What other kind of success is there?[/quote]
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